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Post by mynewunit on Apr 12, 2017 4:07:13 GMT -8
Podcast page0:00:00 – Opening 0:04:32 – Intro to Iris Gardner. 0:23:40 – Sexual Assault–First incident as a child. 0:39:59 – Tips to prevent abuse. Why it’s hard to come forward. 0:51:16 – Iris growing up with her abuser. 1:01:24 – Resulting relationships, the wrong path, and more Darkness. 1:13:11 – Bouncing back. The beginning. 1:26:50 – Being a Military Wife – Emotional Independence, and tips to be have a successful relationship. 1:47:12 – How to Live a Happy Life after Abuse. 1:57:00 – Jocko’s letter to his daughter. Appreciate your mother. 2:13:30 – Support, Cool Onnit, Amazon, JockoStore stuff, with Jocko White Tea and Psychological Warfare (on iTunes). Extreme Ownership (book), (Jocko’s Kids’ Book) Way of the Warrior Kid, and The Muster002 2:40:28 – Closing Gratitude.
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Post by Sellout on Apr 17, 2017 7:55:14 GMT -8
One thing that made me want to keep the darkness hidden, was the fear of saying no to an adult. I was raised to not talk back , to not say no, and the consequences if I did was being yelled at. It started as don't talk back to your parents and transferred over to anyone that was a friend of the family. So when someone does take advantage of the introverted kid, there is just one more layer to break through. Please listen when the quiet voice hesitates.
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Post by mynewunit on Apr 17, 2017 9:52:24 GMT -8
Very wise. Disappointing your parents can feel worse than being wronged. This is a delicate dance of the parent, authority. I would say I am pretty good at this, but that is just because I am hyper aware. It mostly has to do with my greater fear is having my kids hide things from me that they do need help with rather than being punished for a minor infraction.
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Post by kquack on Oct 15, 2019 11:43:05 GMT -8
Came across Iris' twitter profile this AM after seeing Leif like a tweet that she did. Saw her reference to Podcast 70 Overcoming Unspeakable Darkness. Listened this morning. Wow, just wow.
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